She has hundreds of thousands of supernatural powers, but she always says she is weak.

Chapter 203 I have a request

Several people in the research institute were getting a little restless and their blood beat faster.

They all turned to look at Zuo Xiuyan.

She still looked calm, neither happy nor surprised.

Zuo Xiuyan thought for a moment and said, "You can't easily recruit people in the future?"

Ling Xiao said: "There are no restrictions on who you want to recruit. They will be considered your personal guards."

Zuo Xiuyan nodded lightly: "Then I have a few requests regarding the future members of Team Zero."

Ling Xiao didn't say anything, which naturally meant he agreed.

"Not everyone is suitable for domain retreat." Zuo Xiuyan looked straight at Ling Xiao.

"I don't even have hope for the number of qualified people. Director, please don't be too optimistic."

Zuo Xiuyan's tone became more serious: "I only ask one question, who can treat the person who opened the door as someone who needs help instead of a monster and have an equal dialogue with him."

Several people were stunned.

Ling Xiao's eyes showed a slight surprise.

"I want to make one thing clear: field retreat is a healing process."

"The door opener created all kinds of monsters, but it was not because she wanted to harm people. Instead, it was because of other reasons that she herself became a monster, which caused the disaster."

"They have pain in their hearts that they can't resolve. This is the root cause. What I do is to help them discover it and get through it."

Zuo Xiuyan paused.

Didn’t many people in previous lives also treat people with mental problems as monsters? Just like people in this world treat door openers the same way.

I don’t call others patients, but visitors or those seeking help.

Psychological problems don’t have to reach the level of a disease to be considered a disease.

In most cases, it's just an ordinary and common thing, like a cold.

But if small problems are not solved, they will gradually become big problems.

"This is not a question. Just give the question and you can find a result."

"It's not like you can solve the problem by just talking to the person who opened the door."

"Otherwise, not only will it be impossible to retreat, it may even cause a frenzy and the realm will be upgraded."

Everyone was shocked.

"What? Violent leveling up?" This was like a bucket of cold water being poured down.

It turns out that this method has such serious risks.

Seeing how simple it was for Zuo Xiuyan, I thought that as long as I learned the trick, this would be easy.

"Yes. If you fail to communicate with the right attitude and method, you will not be able to touch the heart of the person who opened the door, and may even cause secondary harm to them."

Zuo Xiuyan felt heavy in his heart.

"The areas caused by psychological problems will naturally become more serious again, bringing greater changes."

How many people study psychology only because of the mystery exaggerated by various media and the distorted excessive publicity.

The most common one is the so-called "mind reading", which is the belief that people who study psychology can see through people's minds.

In fact, psychology is not that magical and does not have this function.

However, many people, because they cannot change to other careers after studying psychology, choose to pursue psychological counseling.

But does acquiring knowledge really make you a qualified psychologist?

The current practice of training zero members is similar to the way in the past, when a large number of people entered the path of psychological counseling because of the magical effect of this "retreat".

How many people who want to get help have met unqualified psychologists, and not only have their pain not been resolved, but they have fallen into greater darkness and abyss.

I became more depressed, miserable, and self-blaming, and lost trust in other psychological treatments.

She would never allow this to happen.

"Anyone can learn knowledge, but there are things more important than knowledge. These are also the most important prerequisites for achieving domain regression."

Several people couldn't help but sit up straight.

The director's eyes also became more inquiring.

"First, acceptance. Unconditional acceptance of the person who opens the door."

After these words were spoken, several people couldn't help but shout in their hearts, what crazy talk is she talking about?

Zuo Xiuyan glanced around and said, "This is a neutral acceptance. It does not mean approval."

"That is, just understanding what happened and knowing these things."

"It means that I neither like nor dislike her."

"Second, respect. The awakened cannot use their own likes and dislikes to preach to her. Do not criticize her world."

Psychologists are not critics.

What we should do is not to tell the visitor that you are so wrong and should avoid it.

Moreover, become a lamp, illuminate the other person's path, and let her see that there is a stone there.

Let her know what is causing the pain each time.

The other party will know how to avoid it on their own.

However, some visitors really cannot discover it on their own, or do not have the ability to circumvent it.

At this time, the psychologist needs to find a way to support her and help her overcome the obstacles step by step.

Psychologists are guides.

Travel with the visitor in his/her world.

“Third, empathy.”

“It’s the ability to experience the emotions of the person who opened the door.”

“Being able to accurately identify the other person’s thoughts and emotions, understand the other person’s feelings, and even feel the other person’s feelings.”

Zuo Xiuyan stopped and looked at everyone.

"So, this is what members are asking for?" someone asked.

"Yes."

That ability, which is far more important than knowledge, is invisible but crucial.

Even if some people do not have psychological knowledge, they can understand other people's psychology, know the key to the problem, and understand how to use the most appropriate words to point out, guide and comfort others.

Such people are sometimes more useful than those half-baked psychologists.

So, one more point.

Zuo Xiuyan believed that loving others is essential.

Love that is not love.

Rather, it comes from a kind heart and a willingness to help others.

This kind of "love" represents something broader.

And this is the key that allows psychologists to reach people's hearts.

But she didn't say it.

This doesn't fit.

In this world full of monsters and strange disasters, how can people love such a door opener as a human being?

"Any Awakened person can learn the psychological knowledge I will talk about in the future, but if you want to become a member of Team Zero, you must do these three things."

“These are the three most basic requirements.”

"For those who can't do it, forget it."

Everyone looked at Zuo Xiuyan quietly.

She was serious and solemn when she said these words.

If before, she was humble and gentle.

At this moment, her majesty was seen.

And, no doubt about it.

In this regard, it can be seen that she has an unshakable bottom line and strict requirements.

Ling Xiao chuckled: "You always surprise people."

She leaned forward, clasped her hands together, and rested her arms on the table.

"This is equivalent to the conditions for retreat in the supplementary field. I certainly won't object to you. The more perfect the details and the stricter the standards, the easier it will be to achieve the desired results."

She paused, looked at Zuo Xiuyan, and smiled.

"I never thought that everyone could do this, but I am still optimistic."

"Because every additional person means more strength."